Love : ~ noun
A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
That was what I got from an online dictionary. There are a lot more that they provided me but I chose this one cos its the most meaningful one.
When someone ask you.." Why do you LOVE him/her?"
" Oh! Its bcos: He's/She's
caring,
understanding,
funny,
charming,
handsome/beautiful,
always there when I need him/her,
and the list goes on......
When people are in love, they're oblivious to their surroundings...
To them, everything else doesn't matter as long as they have each other..
I guess that's why at time we see couples hugging each other in public, showing their affections openly to one another and eventhough everyone else is looking at them, they wouldn't care less...
As they say(dunno who lah) but I've heard something like this:
Kalau dah cinta tu, kentut yg busuk pun dikatakan wangi...
Something like that lah...
I guess the underlying message is that when you're in love, whatever flaws ur other half possesses is invisible. In your eyes, he's PERFECT!
Well, when reality sets in, the wrong buttons are being pushed...
Wrong strings are pulled..
Heated arguements occur..
Accompanied by hurtful remarks and
sadly there are cases when physical abuses happens...
That's when, to you, their flaws make an appearance for the very 1st time...
Eventhough everyone else has seen it...
Except YOU
But when everything is calm down..
There's 2 possibilities that might happen:
1) kiss and make up
2) go on your separate ways
It depends on the situation that your in..
For example:
If the fight is bcos the guy is upset cos the gerl masak tak pakai belacan
den merajuk for one month
by all means pls take option 1
But if the guy's kaki and tangan dah start flying everywhere
and keeps landing on the gerl
Ladies pls...
I beg you...
No matter how many times he promised that he wont do it again..
For you own safety, dont belief him and quickly take option 2
Before you jump to conclusion, I would like to make everything clear..
Crystal clear
The 2nd example that I gave is JUST an example
Takde kena mengena dgn org2 yg masih hidup ataupun yg telah meninggal dunia
Ni adelah cuma rekaan semata-mata
Understand?
Den, y am I blogging all this?
Well....
Someone told me something that reli knock some sense in me
I cant remember the exact words but it goes somehow like this
Love conquers everything.
When you first accepted someone to be your partner,
its bcos of the good qualities that they posses that attracted you,
But at the same time
you are also accepting his/her shortfalls,
If you can accept that den, why not now?
True..tats so true..
That made me think...
Think abt my relationship with Abang.
It hasn't been smooth sailing for us but alhamdulillah, we made it tis far..
Eventhough I've been with him since completing my 'O' levels
I'm still learning new things abt him
and even
discovering abt my own complicated self!
Wow!
This is what they say
Killing two birds with one stone!
